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Friday, December 19, 2014

Why woman should not call / text a man too much (Eng & Thai)


What is calling / texting too much? If you feel the need to tell him everything you’re doing… that’s obviously too much. I still see some girls wanting to call or text her BF multiple times per day, that’s sweet, but just be careful.

During the beginning of relationship, it is not weird if both of you text and call each other multiple times a day, and can’t get each other out of your mind. Men and Women have no difference during this period. But as time goes, there will be a point where you realise that you have to focus on your job, career, or whatever other aspect of life you have. At that point, relationship might not be his first priority. Not that he doesn’t love you, but he would want to be successful in order to have a better quality future with you. But you need to understand and be supportive about this. And you also understand that for man, they feel like they need to achieve something, be successful to gain respect from the society. Therefore, career plays a lot of part in men’s life.

Classic question: Why is it that when a man focus on his job , they put relationship later? I’m a woman and I can still go to work and think about him?

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Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Think 5 minutes before you pick a fight on your boyfriend / girlfriend


There are multiple situations and times in relationship where an incident happens and you are just so overwhelmed by the emotion that automatically made you march directly to that person and pick a fight immediately. Sometimes you end up understanding each other more, but I see that most of the times, regret of what being said and brought up.
Emotion makes most argument longer and unnecessarily drama. People say the more you are closer the healthier if you have a fight once in a while. I agree. But the fight should be sensible, not throwing emotions to each other irresponsibly. Some problem can be solve in a shorter time and a peaceful manner, if emotion wasn’t involve.
But you’re pissed! How can you not get emotional?
That is why I say, give yourself 5 minutes before you march over to pick a fight with him/her.

5 minutes of sanity question
Sample Situation:
You tried to contact your boyfriend from 9:00 pm to 12:00 am, but he went silent. You found out the next day that your boyfriend went out to strip club with his bosses and investors, from his co-worker.

1. What am I angry about?

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Sunday, December 7, 2014

SEASON FOR TARTAN AND PLAID

I know you can wear tartan and plaid any other time, but there's something about this season that makes you wanna where them even more. Or is it just me? FYI I'm not going for a Japanese school girl look. That seems to be how the ppl perceive in this country.

タータンチェックとかって、年中コーデに入れてもいいと思うけど、やっぱり今の季節になるともっと着たくなる。バンコクでこんな感じのコーデをすると、日本の女子高生のスタイルって言われる。そうじゃないって、、、

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Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Why men like women who eat a lot, yet want them skinny


Let me tell you an irony. Men always say stuff like, ‘I like confident woman, but also a caring and homey one’. ‘I like a funny woman who gets humor, but doesn’t talk a lot’. ‘I like a beautiful  looking woman, but doesn’t put on too  much makeup’. ‘I like a woman who have time for me, but give me space’.  And out of all these, the most annoying one has to be ‘I like a woman who enjoys food and eat a lot, but still skinny’.

TADA---!!!! Call it double standard or whatever, but these ideals are pretty true. When women hear these argument, most of them roll their eyes and secretly in their mind, goes… arrrrrgggg.
I tell you one thing. Men don’t even know what they want. But if you want them to express honestly, these would be it.

But after thinking and analyzing these ideals for a while, I came to a conclusion. They actually make sense. Today I’m going to focus on the ‘eat-a-lot but skinny’ part. So here are the thoughts behind.
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Monday, December 1, 2014

2 Looks in 1 Day

So... in the morning, I had to dress formal (ish) to be ready to appear on TV program, as a translator for Japanese artist, Kyary Pamyu Pamyu. But that evening I had to go to the venue to make sure the setting and everything's done; therefore, I should ditch my suit and put on something comfy... hence the hoodie look.

朝、テレビ番組できゃりーぱみゅぱみゅさんの通訳として出ないと行けないので、ちょっとフォーマルに。夕方には現場に行かないと行けないので、ちょっと楽にフード付きカーデで。

คือ... ตอนเช้า Aki ต้องแต่งตัวดูเป็นทางการ (นิดหน่อย) เพื่อเป็นล่ามให้ศิลปินญี่ปุ่น Kyary Pamyu Pamyuในรายการทีวีอะคะ แต่เย็นวันนั้นก็ต้องไปสถานที่จัดงานเพื่อดูความเรียบร้อย Akiเลยทิ้งสูทและเปลี่ยนเป็น Hoodie ... สบายกว่าเยอะ

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Sunday, November 9, 2014

My Formal Style inTokyo (02)

So this was the last day of the conference, and there was going to be a special concert at the end. I thought I should dress a little bit rough just to enjoy the concert, a rock concert at the end. At first I wasn't sure whether I should go with boots or red heels.... but... red heels add more feminine touch to the whole outfit... so I went with the red heels.

お仕事最終日です。最後にライブがあるので、ライブらしいコーデをしました。ロックなライブなので(笑)、、、最初はブーツで行こうかなと思ったんですけど、赤いヒールの方がちょっとセクシーに女の子っぽいと思い、ヒールにしました。

นี่เป็นวันสุดท้ายของการประชุมและจะมีคอนเสิร์ตพิเศษในตอนท้ายด้วย เลยจัดสไตล์ร็อคนิด ๆ เพราะศิลปินเป็นศิลปินร็อค ตอนแรก Aki ก็ไม่แน่ใจว่าจะบู๊ตหรือรองเท้าส้นสูงสีแดงดี .... แต่ ...ส้นสูงสีแดงเพิ่มความหญิงมากกว่า เลยไปกับรองเสีแดงแล้ะกัน

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Monday, November 3, 2014

My Formal style inTokyo


So... went to Tokyo for a week for a conference. It's October and the weather's just right in Tokyo. Well, since it was a conference, I really need to dress formal / professional, but my inner fashion blogger me won't surrender to the normal black or navy blue blazer and pants/skirt. So here is what I wore. 

東京でお仕事してきました。10月なので、ちょうどいい涼しさでした。一応、仕事なのでちゃんとした、フォーマルなスタイルで参加しないと行けないのですが、私の奥底のファッションブロガーが普通では満足しないので、ちょっとオシャレしました。 

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